Soft Butch: A Queer Haven in Bed-Stuy

queer person standing out front at Soft Butch in Bed Stuy

Nestled on a peaceful street in Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn, Soft Butch is more than just a coffee shop—it’s a community hub with an intentional focus on inclusivity, warmth, and comfort. Trans-owned and operated by Mika Turbo and Antæus Mathieu, this café is a testament to the power of queer-owned spaces to create connection and belonging in […]

Quirk Hotel Richmond Review: Where Southern Charm Meets Queer Femme Chic

pale pink interior of the Quirk Hotel Richmond VA

Richmond, Virginia—a city brimming with charm and a bastion of southern LGBTQ+ inclusivity —offers an inclusive and creative retreat for travelers. At the heart of it all lies the Quirk Hotel Richmond, a pink high-femme fantasy brought to life and a perfect reflection of the city’s unique blend of history and modernity. I’m here in […]

The Insider’s Guide: 20+ Amazing Things to do in Merida, Mexico

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Merida, Mexico, holds a special place in my heart. I lived there for four years and have returned at least once a year ever since, especially since my mom retired there. During a couple of recent visits, I fell in love with the city all over again, this time through the eyes of loved ones, […]

Travel Smart: Avoid Roaming Fees and Stay Connected

queer person standing alone at a petrified waterfall in mexico

It’s no secret we love to travel around here, but we’re also not blind to the challenges that come with being constantly on the move. One of the hardest parts for me has always been feeling disconnected from my loved ones. Naturally, my cellphone is my lifeline, keeping me tied to family and friends when […]

Discovering Merida Restaurants: Fresh Finds & Old Favorites

casual food at a Merida Restaurant with a soda on a green table cloth

As I’m gearing up for a few weeks back in Mérida a city I called home on and off for 4 years, I’ve already started checking out some new restaurants because, let’s be real, eating while traveling is hands down one of my favorite things to do. It’s been a couple of years since I […]

Must-Read LGBTQ+ Travel Books for Exploring the World with Pride

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Travel has always been a way to explore new cultures, meet new people, and broaden our perspectives. But for LGBTQ+ travelers, it’s also about finding safe, welcoming spaces and understanding the diverse experiences of queer people worldwide. Whether you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally eager to learn more, LGBTQ travel books offer […]

Cape Cod Whale Watching: Adventures from Provincetown

tail of a whale diving beside a whale watching boat in cape cod

We love Provincetown because it is GAY, truly all-caps gay—you’ll see rainbow flags, lovely queer couples, and more than a few toned, shirtless gay men wherever you look. We’ve written a full guide on all the epic gay things to do in Provincetown. While whale watching isn’t specifically an LGBTQ activity, it is an absolute […]

The Best Queer Events, Lesbian Bars and Gay Clubs in Boston

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Boston boasts a vibrant lesbian community with a diverse range of events to cater to all interests. From the popular LesbianNightlifeEvents’ monthly tea dances to underground parties like Boudoir, there’s something for everyone. Whether you’re seeking a casual gathering, a night of dancing, or opportunities to connect with like-minded individuals, Boston’s lesbian bar scene offers […]