Nestled on a peaceful street in Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn, Soft Butch is more than just a coffee shop—it’s a community hub with an intentional focus on inclusivity, warmth, and comfort. Trans-owned and operated by Mika Turbo and Antæus Mathieu, this café is a testament to the power of queer-owned spaces to create connection and belonging in the heart of a bustling city. Whether you’re a longtime neighborhood resident or visiting from out of town, stepping into Soft Butch feels like comfort.
When we visited on a crisp Sunday afternoon, the café was alive with quiet activity. A mix of patrons filled the space: some were sipping coffee and diving into books, while young families stopped in for afternoon treats. The vibe was quintessentially Brooklyn—charming, relaxed, and inviting, but with an added layer of inclusivity that’s unique to Soft Butch.
During our visit, Mathieu greeted customers with kindness and care that underscored the welcoming atmosphere. It’s clear that this isn’t just a business for them—it’s a labor of love, a space designed with the community in mind.
Soft Butch’s menu matches the thoughtful ambiance with offerings that feel both creative and comforting. I tried their pistachio latte, which was rich, creamy, and slightly nutty—a perfect complement to the chill of an autumn afternoon. My companion Kristine opted for a coconut latte made with coconut milk, and it was equally delightful: smooth, tropical, and just sweet enough. These drinks weren’t just coffee—they were experiences, lovingly crafted to brighten any day.
But Soft Butch is about more than coffee; it’s about connection. The café is intentionally designed as a safe space for queer and trans people, while remaining welcoming to everyone in the neighborhood. Its presence enriches the Bed-Stuy community, providing a haven where authenticity and kindness are celebrated.
After enjoying our lattes and soaking in the cozy vibes, we decided to continue our afternoon with a visit to Hive Mind Bookstore, a newly opened queer-owned bookstore in nearby Bushwick. Though we could have walked, the chilly weather called for a short Uber ride. Pairing these two spots made for the perfect queer-friendly Sunday outing—one filled with delicious drinks, good company, and the joy of supporting LGBTQ-owned businesses.
If you’re looking for a unique weekend itinerary that combines great coffee with a sense of community, Soft Butch and Hive Mind Bookstore make an unbeatable combo. Start your day with a pistachio latte at Soft Butch, where you can soak in the warmth of Mika and Antæus’ hospitality, then head to Hive Mind to browse books, sip more coffee, and continue celebrating the creativity and resilience of queer spaces.
Soft Butch isn’t just a café; it’s a reflection of what makes Brooklyn—and the LGBTQ community—so special. It’s a place where coffee becomes connection, and where everyone is invited to feel at home. Whether you’re a Bed-Stuy local or just passing through, make sure to add Soft Butch to your list. You’ll leave with more than just a great latte; you’ll leave with a full heart.
