Tokyo is a dream destination for queer & lesbian travelers. Known for one of the most vibrant LGBTQ+ scenes in the world, Tokyo is home to hundreds of queer spaces. Beyond the nightlife, Tokyo offers a unique blend of traditional and modern culture, from ancient temples to trendy fashion districts. Lesbians can dive into the city’s cutting-edge fashion scene, explore diverse culinary experiences, and immerse themselves in the thriving arts and entertainment culture. With something for everyone, Tokyo is an unforgettable experience for queers and lesbians seeking a unique and exciting travel destination.
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EveryQueer Tip: Don’t miss Tokyo Pride, an annual celebration of LGBTQ+ identity in June with parades, live music, and community events.
Planning Your Trip
Best Time to Visit Tokyo: Tokyo is a bustling city year-round with lots of opportunities for exploration at any time of year. That being said, spring (March-May) and autumn (September-November) are ideal for mild weather and stunning scenery, with cherry blossoms blooming in spring and vibrant foliage in autumn.
Getting to Tokyo: Fly into Narita International Airport (NRT) or Haneda Airport (HND). From there, the efficient and user-friendly public transportation system makes navigating the city a breeze. Japan’s famous bullet train, The Shinkansen connects Tokyo to other nearby cities making cross-country travel in Japan super efficient.
Where to Stay in Tokyo
Hotel Groove Shinjuku
As a proud member of the International LGBTQ+ Travel Association (IGLTA), Hotel Groove Shinjuku goes above and beyond to ensure a welcoming and inclusive environment for all guests. Located just steps away from Shinjuku Ni-chōmeTokyo’s vibrant gay district, this stylish hotel offers a perfect base for exploring the area’s lively bars, clubs, and restaurants. With its contemporary design and friendly staff, Hotel Groove Shinjuku provides a comfortable and safe haven for lesbian travelers seeking a memorable Tokyo experience.
9Hours Capsule Hotel
For adventurous travelers on a budget, the 9Hours Capsule Hotel offers a unique and affordable accommodation option. With several locations throughout Tokyo, these modern capsule hotels provide clean, compact sleeping pods equipped with all the essentials. While not exclusively LGBTQ+-focused, 9Hours fosters an inclusive atmosphere and provides a safe and convenient option for solo travelers or those seeking a taste of Japanese capsule hotel culture. Some 9 Hours capsule hotels have co-ed capsule rooms, while others separate guests by gender. There are also some 9 Hours capsule hotels are exclusively for women, including the Kanda branch near Tokyo Station and Akihabara.
Exploring Tokyo Neighborhoods
Harajuku
Harajuku is a must-visit for any queer traveler seeking a dose of Tokyo’s vibrant youth culture and fashion scene. This trendy neighborhood pulsates with creative energy, showcasing an eclectic mix of street styles, from the iconic Decora and Lolita fashion to cutting-edge streetwear. Wander down Takeshita Street, a haven for quirky shops and colorful cafes, where you can find everything from vintage clothing and kawaii accessories to independent designers and outrageous costumes. Lose yourself in the maze of backstreets, discover hidden gems, and immerse yourself in the unique energy of this fashion-forward district.
Shibuya Crossing
Witness the organized chaos of the world’s busiest pedestrian crossing. Tokyo’s most overhyped tourist attraction is the busiest intersection in the world. Every guide said we should experience it but as a New Yorker, it just felt like being in rush hour without any reason. As the scramble crossing lights change, a flood of pedestrians from all directions. A guide to Tokyo wouldn’t be complete without it but it wasn’t my favorite stop on our trip.
Ginza
For a taste of Tokyo’s sophisticated side, head to Ginza, a district synonymous with luxury and elegance. This upscale neighborhood is a haven for high-end shopping, boasting flagship stores from renowned international brands like Chanel, Dior, and Gucci. Don’t worry there are reasonably priced stores as well. A trip to Ginza isn’t complete without stopping by the massive UNIQLO Flagship store. EveryQueer’s Content Director swears they have the perfect masc tshirts. Even if your budget doesn’t allow for a shopping spree, Ginza is a feast for the eyes with its stunning architecture, art galleries, and chic cafes. Take a leisurely stroll down Chuo Dori, Ginza’s main thoroughfare, which transforms into a pedestrian paradise on weekends, allowing you to fully appreciate the vibrant atmosphere.
Shinjuku
Shinjuku is a dynamic and diverse district that seamlessly blends towering skyscrapers, bustling shopping streets, and vibrant nightlife. Explore the maze of department stores and shops around Shinjuku Station, one of the busiest transportation hubs in the world. For a taste of old Tokyo, wander through Shinjuku Golden Gai, a network of narrow alleyways lined with tiny, atmospheric bars. And of course, no visit to Shinjuku is complete without a visit to Shinjuku Ni-chome, Tokyo’s vibrant LGBTQ+ district, offering a welcoming and inclusive space for all.
Akihabara
Anime enthusiasts, gamers, and tech geeks, rejoice! Akihabara, affectionately known as “Akiba,” is your haven. This electric town pulsates with the energy of all things otaku, overflowing with shops dedicated to anime, manga, video games, and electronics. Explore towering department stores like Yodobashi Camera, browse shelves overflowing with figurines and collectibles, and immerse yourself in the vibrant arcade culture. Akihabara also offers themed cafes, maid cafes, and cosplay events, providing a truly unique and wildly unforgettable experience.
Things To Do in Tokyo
Relax at a Traditional Onsen
Escape the urban frenzy and treat yourself to a rejuvenating experience at a traditional onsen. These natural hot springs, found throughout Japan, offer a soothing retreat for both body and soul. Immerse yourself in the mineral-rich waters, known for their therapeutic properties, and feel your stress melt away. Many onsens have serene outdoor settings, allowing you to connect with nature while enjoying the calming embrace of the warm water. Whether you choose a public bathhouse or a private onsen experience, this cherished Japanese tradition promises a revitalizing escape and a chance to unwind in tranquility
Take Cringe-Worthy Photos in a Kawaii Photobooth
Embrace your playful side and capture lasting memories with friends in a “kawaii” (cute) photo booth. These iconic booths, known as “purikura,” offer a fun and interactive experience, allowing you to decorate your photos with stickers, filters, and whimsical effects. Strike a pose, unleash your creativity, and walk away with a sheet of adorable, personalized photos to commemorate your Tokyo adventures.
Visit One of the Many Animal Cafes
For a truly unique and heartwarming experience, step into the world of Tokyo’s animal cafes. These charming establishments offer the opportunity to interact with a variety of adorable creatures, from fluffy cats and playful dogs to owls, hedgehogs, and even penguins! Sip on a coffee while cuddling with a furry friend, providing a welcome respite from the bustling city and a chance to connect with some adorable animals. Many animal cafes also promote animal welfare and rescue efforts, making your visit both enjoyable and meaningful.
Explore Nakamise-dori
Step back in time and immerse yourself in Tokyo’s traditional culture with a visit to Sensō-ji Temple, the city’s oldest temple. Before reaching the temple grounds, wander through Nakamise-dori, a charming market street lined with traditional kiosks selling souvenirs, snacks, and local crafts. Consider renting a kimono from one of the many vendors in the area for the occasion, enhancing your experience and creating a memorable photo opportunity. As you approach Sensō-ji Temple, admire its intricate architecture, vibrant colors, and serene atmosphere, offering a peaceful escape from the city’s hustle and bustle.
Try Your Luck at a Ākēdo
For a taste of Japanese arcade culture, head to Ākēdo, a multi-floor entertainment center packed with games, attractions, and the infamous claw machines. Test your skills and try your luck at winning a variety of prizes, ranging from cute plushies and anime figurines to the downright bizarre, like miniature skincare products, tiny vibrators, and even love letters from scorned exes! Ākēdo provides an entertaining and quirky glimpse into Japanese pop culture.
Explore a Spicy Yuri Shop
For those not in the know, Yuri is a lesbian subgenre of anime and manga. Tokyo has a wide variety of bookstores and novelty shops dedicated to Yuri. Browse shelves overflowing with manga, anime DVDs, doujinshi (fan-made comics), and character goods featuring your favorite yuri couples. These shops offer a haven for fans seeking to connect with like-minded individuals and explore the diverse world of Yuri media. You may also want to check out Yuri Cafe Anchor.
EveryQueer Tip: Dyke Weekend has been taking place annually for more than 30 years just outside of Tokyo at Musashi-ranzan in Saitama
Things to Eat in Japan
Conveyor Belt Sushi: Experience the fun and efficiency of grabbing plates of sushi as they whiz by on a conveyor belt.
Tonkatsu: Savor crispy deep-fried pork cutlets, a Japanese comfort food classic.
Kakigori: Cool down with this refreshing shaved ice dessert, similar to Korean Bing Su.
Sashimi: Enjoy the fresh flavors of raw fish, a staple of Japanese cuisine.
Ramen: Slurp down a delicious bowl of ramen, a customizable noodle soup dish.
Strawberry Daifuku Mochi: Delight in this sweet treat featuring a mochi ball filled with red bean paste and topped with a strawberry.
Taiyaki: Try this fish-shaped cake filled with sweet red bean paste or custard.
Warabi Mochi: Sample this delicate and refreshing mochi made from bracken starch.
Kobe Beef: Splurge on a taste of this world-renowned, melt-in-your-mouth beef.
Omurice: Relish this savory dish of fried rice wrapped in a thin omelet.
Melon Bread: Bite into this sweet bun with a crispy cookie crust.
Fuwafuwa Pancakes: Experience the airy lightness of these extra fluffy pancakes.
Queer Nightlife + Lesbian in Tokyo
Navigating Shinjuku Ni-chome’s Vibrant Nightlife
Prepare for a night of endless possibilities in Shinjuku Ni-chome, Tokyo’s renowned LGBTQ+ district. With over 300 queer bars, cafes, bookstores, and other businesses, this vibrant hub is expansive but not the only location for queer nightlife in Tokyo. It’s worth noting that many establishments cater to a specific clientele, it’s not uncommon to see signs that say women only or spaces that only allow local people. Many parties kick off around midnight and continue until the first trains start running, so pace yourself for a night of revelry.
EveryQueer Tip: Many lesbian bars in Japan are very small at times it can feel more like having a drink in someone’s cozy living room.
LGBTQ+ Policy & Laws in Japan
In Japan, LGBTQ+ rights are a complex and evolving issue. While same-sex sexual activity has been legal since 1880, there is no nationwide legal recognition of same-sex marriage, though some cities and wards issue partnership certificates. Japan is the only country in the G7 without marriage equality.
Social acceptance of LGBTQ+ people is gradually increasing, particularly among younger generations, but discrimination and stigma persist. There’s growing public support for legalizing same-sex marriage, reflected in recent court rulings and polls. However, conservative elements within the government continue to stall progress on LGBTQ+ rights legislation. Despite these challenges, the LGBTQ+ community in Japan is increasingly visible and vocal, and advocates continue to push for greater equality and acceptance.
EveryQueer Tip: While Tokyo is generally safe for LGBTQ+ travelers, it’s advisable to exercise discretion in public displays of affection outside of LGBTQ+ spaces.
- Non-Discrimination: While national anti-discrimination laws are limited, some cities, including Tokyo, have implemented ordinances prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.
- Marriage Equality: Japan does not legally recognize same-sex marriage.
- Adoption: Same-sex couples cannot jointly adopt children.
- Hate Crimes: There are no specific hate crime laws protecting LGBTQ+ individuals.
- Conversion Therapy Ban: There is no nationwide ban on conversion therapy.
Community Support: LGBTQ+ organizations and community centers provide support and resources throughout Japan.
