This year, the trip we’re most excited about is finally happening, we’re hiking to Everest Base Camp (EBC) in Nepal! This adventure has been on both Meg’s and my bucket list for over a decade, and now it’s within reach. As we gear up for this once-in-a-lifetime journey, we’re thrilled to share that we still have a few spots available. We can’t wait to welcome a few more adventurous souls to join us, creating memories and forging bonds that will last forever.
The EBC trek isn’t just another trip—it’s a challenge, a triumph, and a celebration of community. We know there will be moments of difficulty, with continuous movement and the ever-increasing altitude pushing our limits. But the thought of achieving something so monumental alongside our fellow queer travelers fills me with a joy that words can hardly capture. There’s something incredibly powerful about being uplifted by and sharing joy and achievement with, a community that understands and embraces you.
Understanding the Everest Base Camp Trek
The EBC trek is a bucket-list adventure for many, offering unparalleled views of the world’s highest peaks and a deep dive into the rich culture of Nepal and the sherpa community the fuels the region. Spanning approximately 130 kilometers (80 miles) round trip, the journey typically takes 12-14 days, allowing for acclimatization to the high altitudes. The trail ascends to an elevation of 5,364 meters (17,598 feet) at Base Camp, with the opportunity to climb Kala Patthar (5,545 meters or 18,192 feet) for breathtaking panoramic views of Mount Everest.

Weather Conditions in November
November is a favored month for trekking to EBC due to its stable weather and clear skies. However, it’s essential to be prepared for varying temperatures:
- Kathmandu (1,400 m / 4,600 ft): Daytime temperatures range from 18°C to 25°C (64°F to 77°F), with nights cooling to around 7°C (45°F).
- Lukla (2,829 m / 9,281 ft): Expect daytime temperatures around 6.5°C (43.7°F) and nighttime lows near 0.9°C (33.6°F).
- Namche Bazaar (3,463 m / 11,361 ft): Daytime temperatures average 2.9°C (37.2°F), dropping to -3.4°C (25.9°F) at night.
- Dingboche (4,483 m / 14,708 ft): Daytime highs near 5.3°C (41.5°F), with nighttime temperatures plummeting to -11°C (12.2°F).
- Lobuche (4,910 m / 16,100 ft): Daytime temperatures around 2.8°C (37°F), with nights as cold as -13.8°C (7.2°F).
- Gorak Shep (5,180 m / 16,995 ft): Expect daytime temperatures of 1°C (33.8°F) and nighttime lows of -15.3°C (4.5°F).

Packing Essentials
Clothing and Layering Layering is essential to manage the varying temperatures. Start with merino wool or synthetic base layers that wick moisture away, keeping you dry and warm. Add mid-layers like fleece jackets for insulation, and a lightweight down jacket for warmth without bulk. A waterproof and windproof outer layer is crucial for protection against the elements. Trekking pants designed for comfort and flexibility are a must, along with insulated leggings for colder days.
Gender-neutral base layer options: Smartwool is highly considered, but of course, it comes with a price tag. These Smartwool bottoms will layer well under pants or shorts and keep you dry. For a good baselayer at a lower price point check out this set buy Danish Endurance, it comes in a bunch of colors and sizes. I have also found tons of people calling out UNIQLO HeatTech as a good baselayer option, I used their products for a trip to Antarctica and was super happy with the performance.
For mid layer fleece Patagonia (R1 Air Zip Neck) and North Face (Cedar Trail Grid Fleece ¼-Zip) are my go-to brands. I know there are tons of other solid options but I’ve had so much success with both brands I know that’s where I’ll be headed for my mid-weight layer. Columbia also has some cool mid-weight options, like the Steens Mountain 2.0 .
Here are some lightweight down jacket options that piqued our interest. Patagonia Down Sweater its one of the warmer options so if you typically run cold this could be a good choice. Alternatively, check out the REI Co-op 650 Down Jacket in all my research I am finding this to consistently be considered one of the best lower-cost, high-performance down jackets.
I already own the Antora Jacket and think it will be perfect for my trip but if I didn’t already have a jacket I’d be really considering Alpha Jacket Men’s from ARC’TERYX.
Trekking Pants options are pretty endless. This pair from Aritzia is stylish while also being waterproof and durable. This pair from REI Co-op Trailmade Pants are about as classic as it comes and will work well for tons of situations.

Footwear and Accessories Your feet will carry you through this adventure, so invest in waterproof, insulated hiking boots. Pair them with merino wool socks and liner socks to prevent blisters and keep your feet comfortable. Don’t forget hats, wool beanies, and neck gaiters to protect against sun exposure and cold winds. Gloves are vital, so bring both liner and insulated pairs for varying temperatures.
Packs and Sleeping Gear A well-fitted daypack, designed specifically one that fits your body, will carry your daily essentials, and having a pack that fits your body is incredibly important. You can go into places like REI and have a fitting done so they can make recommendations. I can not stress enough how important it is to find a pack that fits your body. I’ve found that packs sold as men’s packs fit my body because I’m 6ft tall and have a long torso. If my tries my same pack on, at 5’4″ it’s almost impossible for her to carry because it sits low on her hips and throws her off balance. For that reason, I’m not making any pack recommendations.
A larger duffel bag, handled by porters, will store the rest of your gear. Ensure you have a sleeping bag rated for temperatures down to -20°C (-4°F) and a silk or thermal liner for extra warmth. Trekking poles will provide stability and reduce strain on your joints, making the journey more manageable.
Personal Items and Hygiene Personal items such as feminine hygiene products, biodegradable wipes, and hand sanitizer are crucial for maintaining cleanliness in the remote wilderness. Pack sunscreen, lip balm with SPF, and a basic first aid kit with altitude sickness medication. Don’t forget your travel documents, a copy of your itinerary, and some local currency for tips and purchases.
Camera Gear To capture the awe-inspiring scenery, a compact, lightweight camera will balance portability with image quality. Bring extra batteries and memory cards to ensure you don’t miss a moment. A small tripod can be useful for group shots or time-lapses of stunning landscapes.

Why the Right Gear Matters
Choosing the right fabrics and products is crucial for a multi-day hike like this. Merino wool and synthetic materials are favored for their moisture-wicking properties, keeping you dry and reducing the risk of hypothermia. Insulated gear helps maintain body heat, which is essential in the cold temperatures of the Himalayas. Lightweight, packable items are ideal for reducing the load without compromising on warmth or functionality.
This journey is more than just a trek to Everest Base Camp; it’s about challenging ourselves, celebrating our identities, and finding joy in the shared triumphs of our community. We’re counting down the days until we set foot on the trail, and we’d love for you to join us on this incredible adventure. Together, we’ll create memories that will inspire and uplift, sharing in the exhilaration of conquering one of the world’s most iconic treks.

Additional Considerations
- Water Access and Carrying Water: Bottled water is available in most tea houses along the trek, but you’ll be limited in options at higher altitudes. Consider a water filter like Sawyer Squeeze or LifeStraw to purify water from natural sources.
- First Aid and Medical Supplies: It’s crucial to carry your own basic first aid kit, including pain relievers, band-aids, and blister treatment.
- ATMs and Cash: Withdraw enough cash in Kathmandu to cover your expenses for the trek as tea houses along the trail do not accept cards.
- Charging Devices: Most tea houses have solar-powered or generator-powered charging stations, but availability and reliability can be limited at higher altitudes. A solar charger is a great option for keeping devices charged along the way.
With the right gear, preparation, and a spirit of adventure, this trek promises to be an unforgettable experience. We can’t wait to embark on this journey with you, creating memories that will last a lifetime.