Richmond, Virginia, might surprise you. Beyond the cobblestone streets and historical landmarks, a vibrant and welcoming LGBTQ+ scene thrives. From cozy cafes to lively bars, inclusive salons to community-focused businesses, Richmond offers a unique blend of Southern charm and queer energy. EveryQueer is here to guide you through the best of RVA’s LGBTQ+ offerings.
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Why Visit Richmond?
Richmond is also known for its welcoming and inclusive atmosphere, particularly for the LGBTQ+ community. A vibrant scene with diverse bars, cafes, and community events awaits. The city’s friendly locals and businesses contribute to an environment where everyone can feel safe and accepted. Come for the outdoor adventures, and delicious food, and stay for the warm hospitality.
EveryQueer Tip: Don’t miss Richmond’s annual PrideFest, an annual celebration of LGBTQ+ pride in September with parades, live music, and community events.
Planning Your Trip to Richmond
Best Time to Visit Richmond: For every destination, we always recommend visiting during spring or fall for mild weather and fewer crowds. The shoulder seasons also coincide with several LGBTQ+ events in Richmond, like Pride Month in June and VA PrideFest in September. We happen to have visited in December, where the city was packed with holiday activities and winter cheer.
Getting to Richmond: Richmond is easily accessible with daily flights to Richmond International Airport (RIC) and Amtrak service to Staples Mill Road Station. Once you’ve arrived, Richmond is a fairly spreadout city, consider renting a car, using ride share apps or utilize the Pulse rapid transit bus line, GRTC bus system, and bike-sharing program to navigate the city.
Where to Stay in Richmond
Quirk Hotel
Embodying Richmond’s unique blend of history and modernity, the Quirk Hotel Richmond is a pink, high-femme fantasy come to life. Housed in the former J.B. Mosby department store dating back to 1916, this 73-room boutique hotel is a testament to reinvention. With its on-site art gallery, rooftop bar, and vibrant personality, the Quirk Hotel perfectly captures the creative spirit of Richmond.
Walking into Quirk feels like stepping into a dream where cottagecore meets LoveShackFancy. From the pink couches to the glittering Christmas tree in the lobby, it’s an elegant explosion of femininity with just the right amount of whimsy. I couldn’t help but smile when I noticed the hotel’s pink dachshund mascot, which felt like a delightful nod to my 13-year-old princess wiener dog, Mackenzie.
My room was massive yet minimalist, with enough space to practice a cartwheel or two (not that I practice them often). As a New Yorker used to compact spaces, the sprawling king-sized bed and airy layout felt like a luxurious treat.
Things to Do in Richmond
Explore Cary St and Visit Mongrel
The Cary Street neighborhood is a vibrant and eclectic walkable hub known for its diverse mix of shops, restaurants, and nightlife. Among its many gems is Mongrel, an LGBTQ-owned gift shop that has been a beloved fixture in the community since 1991. With its exuberantly colored storefront, Mongrel beckons visitors to explore its treasure trove of unique and quirky gifts, cards, home decor, and more. The shop’s playful and inclusive atmosphere, coupled with its thoughtfully curated selection of items, has made it a popular destination for both locals and visitors seeking something truly special.
Pick out an Outfit at Diversity Thrift
Diversity Thrift, Richmond’s largest thrift store, spans 15,000 square feet of incredible bargains and unique finds. From furniture and clothing to toys, tools, and outdoor gear, the store offers something for everyone. Daily new additions keep the inventory fresh, and many items come in a variety of conditions—perfect for treasure hunters. As a vital part of Diversity Richmond, the store has donated over $1 million to local nonprofits, supporting causes like the Gay Community Center of Richmond. A true gem for both bargain lovers and those passionate about supporting LGBTQ+ causes, Diversity Thrift is a must-visit spot in the city.
Channel Your Inner Art Student at Virginia Museum of Fine Arts
A visit to the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts (VMFA) in Richmond is a must for any art lover. Wander through the impressive collections of European masters, ancient artifacts, and contemporary art, including works by LGBTQ+ artists like Mickalene Thomas (whose “Interior: Two Chairs and Fireplace” is in the VMFA’s collection) and Kehinde Wiley (“Willem van Heythuysen” is also part of the museum’s holdings).
Don’t miss the renowned South Asian collection and the stunning Art Deco building itself. VMFA is committed to inclusivity and regularly features exhibitions and programs highlighting diverse perspectives, including those of the LGBTQ+ community. Best of all, general admission is always free, making it an accessible and enriching experience for all.
Get a Permanent Piece of Richmond at Heartfelt Tattoo
Heartfelt Tattoo is a haven for queer, trans, and non-binary folks seeking body art in a safe, sensory-friendly environment. Co-owned by Wednesday (she/her) and Jensen (he/they), the studio was born out of a desire to create a workplace free from the typical toxicity of many tattoo spaces. Jensen explains, “I wanted to work somewhere that wasn’t around a bunch of cis men who don’t respect me.”
Designed to be low-stimulation and intentionally calm, the shop offers an inclusive experience for both artists and clients, catering especially to those who find traditional spaces overwhelming. The studio highlights the gender-affirming power of tattoos, prioritizing open consent and body positivity in every interaction.
With four talented artists, Heartfelt Tattoo takes walk-ins and offers a $100 shop minimum. Their Instagram showcases a delightful array of flash designs, and the team fosters intimate connections with clients through thoughtful, affirming artistry.
Take a Class at Studio Two Three
Studio Two Three is a non-profit community arts space in Richmond dedicated to empowering artists and fostering social change through creativity. They offer affordable studio space with 24/7 access to printmaking equipment, a variety of classes and workshops, an artist residency program, and community-based projects that use art for social impact.
Studio Two Three prides itself on being an inclusive and welcoming environment for artists of all backgrounds, including the LGBTQ+ community. You’ll definitely find a lot of local queer creatives hanging around the studio. They actively participate in events like Richmond’s Pride festival and showcase art that addresses LGBTQ+ themes and experiences. Their commitment to accessibility and social justice makes them a vital resource for queer artists and the broader Richmond community.
Find a Great Story at Fountain Bookstore
Richmond’s beloved Fountain Bookstore, a self-proclaimed “Quirkiest, Heartwarmingest Bookstore on the Planet,” has been a vibrant community hub since 1978. Known for its year-round author events and signings, the bookstore goes beyond selling books—it champions access to literature. This year, Fountain Bookstore partnered with Penguin Random House’s Banned Wagon Tour to distribute 600 banned books to the community. Notably, 50 copies were donated to a local teacher, and another 50 went to an educator in an area grappling with restrictive book bans.
The initiative aligns with Penguin Random House’s broader mission to combat censorship and provide free banned titles like The Outsiders, The Color Purple, and The Adventures of Tom Sawyer. With its focus on fostering dialogue and connection, Fountain Bookstore continues to be a cornerstone of Richmond’s literary and LGBTQ+ scene.
Haircut at Queer Hair Studio Youphoria
While exploring Richmond’s vibrant queer scene, make sure to treat yourself to an experience that nourishes both your hair and your soul at Youphoria Studios. This gender-affirming hair haven, owned by the wonderful Kitt Spata, offers a unique and empowering experience for those seeking a style that truly reflects their identity. More than just a salon, Youphoria Studios is a space where you can relax, be your authentic self, and trust that you’re in the hands of a skilled and compassionate stylist. Kitt’s expertise and dedication to inclusivity ensure that every haircut is a step towards self-discovery and confidence. Whether you’re a local or just visiting, a trip to Youphoria Studios is a must for a truly affirming and unforgettable experience.
Hit the Mimosa Trail
Richmond is the first city to have a Mimosa Trail. The trail features over 40 participating restaurants, each offering its own unique take on the classic brunch cocktail. Some spots offer traditional mimosas, while others get creative with flavors like pineapple and pomegranate. We loved that there are options at every price point on the trail, from the relaxed vibes at queer-owned SB’s Love Shack to the boujie high tea mimosa fantasy you can find at the Jefferson Hotel, there is a mimosa for everyone. You can even find a Beermosa and other remixes on the famous cocktail. The Richmond Region Mimosa Trail is a self-guided tour, and you can sign up for a free mobile passport to track your progress. Visit at least five local restaurants on the trail, check in at each one on the app, and you’ll earn points for some awesome Richmond Region swag.
Richmond Restaurants
Liberty Public House
Liberty Public House is a lesbian-owned gastropub located in the historic Church Hill neighborhood. Known for its welcoming atmosphere and community-focused vibe, it’s a go-to spot for locals and visitors alike. The menu offers a variety of dishes, from comfort classics like mac and cheese to vegan and vegetarian options, including the popular “Hot Chick’n” sandwich. Weekend brunch is a standout, featuring hearty favorites like the Chesapeake Benedict and RVA Chicken Biscuit. With creative cocktails and a lively setting, it’s no wonder everyone I met recommended it as a must-visit during my trip—even though I didn’t have the chance to stop by myself.
Greek on Cary
Greek on Cary is a casual spot in the heart of Carytown serving up classic Greek dishes. Their menu focuses on simple, satisfying fare like gyros and souvlaki, alongside a selection of other traditional Greek eats. Whether you’re craving a hearty platter or a quick bite, they’ve got you covered. They also offer a selection of beer and wine to complement your meal. With its convenient location and casual atmosphere, Greek on Cary is a solid choice for a quick and tasty lunch or dinner.
Gold Lion Community Cafe
Gold Lion Community Cafe, a vibrant, trans-owned, and Indian-inspired vegetarian and vegan cafe, has quickly become a beloved spot in Richmond’s Manchester neighborhood. Co-owned by married couple Matt and Nafis, the cafe is built on a mission of social justice, community, and support for marginalized groups. From Matt’s advocacy for citizenship rights to Nafis’ deep connection to his Indian roots through family recipes, Gold Lion is much more than a cafe—it’s a place where love and belonging thrive.
Known for dishes like Buddy’s Dosa (named after Nafis’ cat) and the Memphis BBQ sandwich, Gold Lion serves up flavorful meals inspired by Nafis’ family recipes and Matt’s experiences. The cafe also offers a space for community gatherings, from salsa nights to queer South Asian meetups. Their commitment to social justice extends to their neighboring bar, Duke’s, where individuals in need can access food and necessities through Duke’s Tab. Whether you’re enjoying a warm chai, joining a spoken word event, or simply savoring the food, Gold Lion is a place where LGBTQ+ affirmation and community come together.
L’Opossum
L’Opossum, an LGBTQ-owned French restaurant in Richmond, takes traditional French cuisine and gives it a modern, playful twist. With a whimsical ambiance full of quirky décor—from mirrored walls to phallic stained-glass pieces and uhm well endowed statues of David—this is not your typical French dining experience. Owned by Chef David Shannon, L’Opossum blends eccentricity with high-quality cuisine, offering inventive dishes like Beef Swellington and the Fabergé Egg. Since opening in 2015, it’s become known for its creative menu, stellar service, and vibrant atmosphere, making it a must-visit for food lovers and culinary adventurers. Reservations are tough to snag, but the unique experience is worth every effort.
Ruby Scoops
Ruby Scoops, owned by Chef Rabia Kamara, is a Richmond gem serving premium, small-batch ice creams, sorbets, and desserts made with locally sourced ingredients. Rabia gained national fame after winning Food Network’s Ben & Jerry’s Clash of the Cones in 2021, showcasing her flair for bold, creative flavors. This Black-owned, woman-owned, and queer-owned shop opened in 2020 and offers seasonal delights like Apple Pie ice cream and Maple Walnut. Don’t miss their unique ice cream flights—perfect for sampling multiple flavors in one visit.
LGBTQ+ Nightlife in Richmond
Babes of Carrytown
Babes of Carytown is a cornerstone of Richmond’s LGBTQ+ scene. Open since 1978, this lesbian-owned bar is a welcoming space for all, drawing in a diverse crowd from near and far. The bar is welcoming of all but has a heavy queer women-leaning crowd. With a sand volleyball court and a cozy, whimsical indoor space, Babes hosts regular events like Stonewall Sports gatherings and Old Girls nights for queer women 35+. Offering Southern pub food, live music, and karaoke, it’s a beloved spot for community, fun, and connection—truly one of the most wholesome queer spaces in Richmond.
Dyke Hang RVA
Dyke Hang RVA organizes events to connect lesbians in Richmond. While the events are created for queer women they are very transgender and bisexual-friendly. The events vary from meet-ups to bar nights to riverfront hangouts in the summer. They are hosted at a roaming roaster of queer-friendly spaces around town.
Barcode
Located in downtown Richmond, Barcode is a popular gay bar and restaurant with a sleek, modern vibe. It attracts a mixed crowd of mostly gay men of all ages. They offer a full menu of American fare, including burgers, sandwiches, and salads. Barcode is known for its strong drinks, DJs, and events like Tuesday Game Nights and Thursday Martini Nights.
Thirsty’s RVA
Thirsty’s is a smaller, more intimate gay bar with a neighborhood feel. It’s known for its friendly bartenders and welcoming atmosphere. The crowd is mixed but it’s popular with the lesbians. They have a limited food menu with bar snacks and a few entrees. Thirsty’s often hosts kink events, karaoke nights, drag shows and is a great place to relax and enjoy a casual drink.
Papi’s
A relative newcomer to the scene, Papi’s is a vibrant Latinx-owned gay bar. Several Richmond locals told us this is the best nightlife spot for black and brown queers but is welcoming to everyone. With its colorful decor, upbeat music, and lively atmosphere, it brings a taste of Miami to Richmond. Papi’s is known for its strong cocktails and welcoming vibe, making it a popular spot for dancing and socializing. They have a small menu of Latin-inspired bar snacks.
Godfrey’s Drag Brunch
Godfrey’s is a Richmond institution and a cornerstone of the city’s LGBTQ+ nightlife. This lively dance club, located in the heart of downtown, is known for its high-energy atmosphere, DJs spinning a mix of pop and dance music, and a calendar packed with themed events.
But Godfrey’s is perhaps most famous for its legendary Drag Brunch. Every weekend, the club transforms into a haven of fabulousness, with dazzling drag queens delivering show-stopping performances while guests enjoy delicious brunch fare and cocktails. It’s a truly unique and entertaining experience that draws crowds from all over.
Richmond’s Complicated History
While Richmond, Virginia’s state capital, is known as one of the most progressive cities in the state, the progressive values have led the city to become both a haven for marginalized people and a battleground for civil rights initiatives statewide.
It’s no secret that Richmond locals have had to work together to process a difficult history as the former capital of the Confederacy. The city became a focal point of civil rights advocacy and a battleground over Confederate symbolism in 2020. Monument Avenue, a prominent boulevard lined with Confederate statues, became a center of demonstrations.
The New York Times called the demonstrations the Most Influential Works of American Protest Art Since World War II. The removal of the statues sparked an ongoing debate about how to remember and interpret the history of destinations deeply intertwined with a problematic past. The debates also sparked civil engagement from marginalized groups and a deep understanding of the need for change in the South.
Richmond Regional Tourism has addressed the need for change head-on with its Out RVA and BLK RVA initiatives, which are designed to uplift marginalized voices, events, and businesses in the Richmond area.
LGBTQ+ Policy & Laws in Richmond
Virginia State LGBTQ+ Policy
- Non-Discrimination: The Virginia Values Act, passed in 2020, prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in employment, housing, public accommodations, and credit. This law applies throughout the state, including Richmond.
- Marriage Equality: Same-sex marriage is legal in Virginia and the entire United States, thanks to the 2015 Supreme Court ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges.
- Adoption: LGBTQ+ couples and individuals in Richmond have the right to adopt children jointly or as stepparents.
- Hate Crimes: Virginia has hate crime laws that include protections based on sexual orientation and gender identity. These laws enhance penalties for crimes motivated by bias against the LGBTQ+ community.
- Conversion Therapy Ban: Richmond has banned the harmful practice of conversion therapy for minors. This protects young LGBTQ+ individuals from undergoing this discredited and potentially damaging treatment.
Richmond LGBTQ+ Policy
- Perfect Score on MEI: Richmond consistently receives a perfect score on the Human Rights Campaign’s Municipal Equality Index (MEI), demonstrating its commitment to LGBTQ+ inclusion in municipal policies, services, and law enforcement.
- Inclusive Policies: The city has adopted various LGBTQ+ inclusive policies, such as non-discrimination in city employment and services, and guidelines for transgender and gender-nonconforming individuals in city facilities.
- Community Support: Richmond has a vibrant LGBTQ+ community and various organizations and resources that provide support, advocacy, and services.
