It’s not just hair; My Lesbian Hairstyle
My hair is a dark mass of course curls. When left to its own devices it sticks straight up in clumps of wire like swirls. While I was growing up, it was never a priority and was perpetually swept up into the standard issue basketball practice bun directly on the top of my head. Now […]
A Rapidly Shrinking List of All the Lesbian Bars Left Worldwide
Lesbian Bars are closing their doors around the world, but there are still some lesbian bars and clubs left for us to enjoy. Use this guide to find lesbian nightclubs around the world.
Ultimate Guide to Lesbian Dating Apps to Meet the Girl of Your Dreams
Lesbian dating apps and websites are a popular way in the queer community to make friends, date, hook up, or find a forever match. From the option to state your pronouns and sexual orientation from day one to find the one other invisible femme in your small town, lesbian online dating has revolutionized some of […]
We Ranked the Best Lesbian Scenes in Pop Culture
I’ve been thinking recently about all of the women who love women that I’ve seen on my screens over the years and how the shaped me into the gay lady I am today. Some of them made my heart skip a beat, some of them made it break ever so slightly, and some of them […]
Best of the Web: Queer Porn That Doesn’t Suck
While we have more access to porn than ever before, the vast majority of it can leave you scrolling through clips for hours or unclear about what to buy that you will really love. As a sex therapist and educator, it one of my sworn duties to help folks find what turns them on so […]
How to Support LGBT Refugees: 6 LGBTQ+ Organizations that Need Your Support
Every year, The International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association’s (IGLTA) Global Convention takes place in a new host city and welcomes international delegates from across the world. Every year I speak at the conference but this year I was invited to attend IGLTA fundraising gala and award ceremony on behalf of Visit West Hollywood. During […]
An Open Letter to Straight People During Pride
I’m super queer and I’m not shy about my opinions and critiques of Pride. Let’s just say, I’m passionate about Pride and its cultural/historical significance. This post isn’t meant to discourage you from attending your local pride festivities. It’s also not meant to be the be-all and end all of your learning. This is an LGBTQ+ […]
Queers You Should Know: Singer Songwriter Miki Ratsula
After visiting Helsinki we fell in love with the artistic stylings of so many Finnish performers that we had to bring you a new Queers You Should Know interview. This week on Queers You Should Know, I have Finnish-American singer Songwriter, Miki Ratsula. Miki has written and produced over twenty original songs. They are most […]
Ft Lauderdale’s World AIDS Museum is Preserving Queer History
With dozens of LGBT-friendly hotels, more than 40 gay nightlife venues, gorgeous beaches, and warm winter weather, it is easy to see why Fort Lauderdale is a favorite vacation spot for the LGBT community. I’ve been eyeing up Fort Lauderdale for years because I knew they were the only city in the world to prioritize […]
5 Uncomfortable Questions About Travel to Anti-LGBT Destinations
I’m not going to bury the lead on this one. Traveling as a member of the LGBT community is a radical act because the majority of the world is still grappling with the question of our legitimacy and mere existence. As you may be able to tell from the depth of this post, I have […]