India, with its vibrant culture, rich history, and stunning landscapes, is an increasingly popular destination for LGBTQ+ travelers. India. The land of vibrant chaos, ancient wonders, and yes, complexities for women and LGBTQ+ travelers. As a seasoned explorer with a healthy dose of wanderlust, I felt a pang of apprehension before returning for my second Indian escapade. My first trip, vibrant with Holi colors, left me a little raw.
When researching travel in India writers describe the country as a “masterclass in travel” but never really explain why. The chaotic streets, crowded markets, and language barriers can be overwhelming for some but those differences aren’t uncommon around the world. Cultural differences, such as differing attitudes towards personal space, misogyny, and eroticism of foreign women, can also take some getting used to.
While India decriminalized homosexuality in 2018, it’s important to remember that social attitudes can vary significantly across regions. To ensure a safe and enjoyable trip, it’s essential to be mindful of cultural sensitivities and local laws.
Understanding the LGBTQ+ Legal Landscape
LGBTQ+ Decriminalization
While same-sex relations are legal, public displays of affection may attract unwanted attention or even legal repercussions in some areas.
No LGB Anti-Discrimination Laws
India lacks a comprehensive anti-discrimination law protecting LGB individuals. This means discrimination in housing, employment, and services can occur.
Transgender Persons (Protection of Rights) Bill
Passed in 2019, this bill prohibits discrimination against transgender people in employment, education, and other services. However, this law has been criticized for its limitations and implementation challenges.
Limited Legal Recognition
Same-sex marriage is not recognized, and adoption rights for same-sex couples are not available.
Understanding LGBTQ+ Social Concerns
India’s social landscape is complex for LGBTQ+ individuals. While it is no longer illegal to be gay, acceptance varies and has been slow to catch on socially. Unfortunately, India still struggles with issues of misogyny and violence against women and transgender people which may result in additional consideration for travelers with those identities.
LGBTQ+ Safety Tips
Research Your Destination
Before traveling, research the specific areas you’ll be visiting in India. Socially, Kerala and Rajasthan are very different in terms of acceptance. Like many places around the world, urban centers like New Delhi and Mumbai tend to be more accepting than rural areas but make sure you’re researching your itinerary before traveling.
Consider Group Travel
Traveling with an organized group provides safety in numbers. Select a group that is familiar with your culture and LGBTQ+ identity. My second trip to India was with GAdventures and they did an excellent job supporting LGBTQ+ travelers.
Choose LGBTQ+-Friendly Accommodation
Look for hotels or guesthouses that are known to be welcoming to LGBTQ+ guests. The Lalit Hotels are a shining example of LGBTQ+ inclusivity in the Indian hospitality industry. As the first hotel chain globally to receive the International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association’s (IGLTA) accreditation, The Lalit has demonstrated a deep commitment to diversity and equality. This commitment is evident in their policies, which include actively hiring LGBTQ+ individuals, providing gender-neutral restrooms, and offering LGBTQ+ sensitivity training to staff. The Lalit actively fosters a welcoming environment where all guests, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, feel safe and respected. This makes them an excellent choice for LGBTQ+ travelers seeking a comfortable and inclusive stay in India.
Be Mindful of Public Displays of Affection
While it’s wonderful to see LGBTQ+ couples enjoying their travels, exercise discretion in public spaces, especially in more conservative areas. This is particularly important for queer women traveling in India as foreign women already attract attention without adding queer eroticism to the mix.
Connect with Local LGBTQ+ Communities
Consider reaching out to local LGBTQ+ organizations or online groups for advice and support. They can offer valuable insights into safe spaces and local customs. Our Queer + Lesbian Travel Facebook Group is often used as a resource to ask specific questions.
Use Caution with Dating Apps
While dating apps can be a way to connect with people, exercise caution and prioritize meeting in public places. In some parts of the world, they’ve been used to entrap queer people.
Cultural Sensitivity
Dress Modestly
While India is diverse, dressing modestly, especially when visiting religious sites or rural areas, is a sign of respect. People of all genders dress more modestly in India than people in the Western world in general.
Understand Historical Context
The majority of people in India are Hindu. While LGB identity is often misunderstood in modern-day India, there is an ancient cultural tradition of multiple genders. Hinduism describes a third gender that is equal to other genders, and there are many examples of saints and demigods who transcend gender norms.
The Koovagam Festival
The Koovagam Festival is a religious celebration that originated in the third century BCE, is one of the largest annual gatherings of Hijra or transgender people in India. Hijra people are a more accepted part of Indian society than in many parts of the world but are still facing social struggles for equality.
Trust Your Instincts
If a situation feels uncomfortable or unsafe, remove yourself from it. While it’s important to be aware of potential challenges, don’t let fear dictate your experience. India offers incredible beauty and hospitality. Approach your travels with an open heart and a willingness to embrace the diversity and richness of Indian culture.
Resources for LGBTQ+ Travelers in India
The Humsafar Trust
A leading LGBTQ+ organization in Mumbai providing health and support services.
Naz Foundation India
An NGO working on HIV/AIDS and sexual health, with a focus on LGBTQ+ communities.
Queer Azaadi Mumbai
A collective advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and visibility.
LGBTQ+ Center of Delhi
A wellness, cultural & outreach center in East Kailash, New Delhi. Each month they provide a variety of activities for the community.
Delhi Queer Spaces
This Instagram account curates and shares Queer-focused events that provide safe spaces for the Queer Community in Delhi.
So, dear fellow queer explorer, is India ready for you with open arms? The answer, like the country itself, is complex. But with a little research, trusted travel partners like EveryQueer and Gadventures, and a healthy dose of cultural sensitivity, India can be an unforgettable journey. It’s a land where ancient traditions co-exist with a burgeoning LGBTQ+ movement, a place where the weight of history mingles with the promise of change. It’s an adventure waiting to be unraveled, with vibrant colors waiting to be filtered through your own unique, queer lens.
