Ready for a beach getaway that rivals even the famously LGBT Provincetown? Look no further than Rehoboth Beach, Delaware! This charming coastal gem is a must-visit for east coast LGBT travelers, offering a vibrant mix of lebian and gay beaches, lively restaurants, and an electrifying gay bar scene.
Despite its compact size, Rehoboth Beach boasts a selection of fabulous gay bars, many of which have been local favorites for years. This tight-knit community knows how to create a welcoming atmosphere where everyone feels right at home. Stroll along the busy Boardwalk and soak in the cheerful energy. Whether you a sun worshiper or there for the great eats you’ll find what you’re looking for. For serious shopping sprees, head to Route 1 and check out the Tanger outlet mall. Just remember, Rehoboth is a seasonal destination, so plan your trip wisely, especially if you’re thinking of visiting off-season.
Navigating LGBTQ+ Nightlife in Rehoboth Beach
There isn’t a dedicated lesbian bar in Rehoboth, as many have been closing across the U.S. However, the gay bars in Rehoboth generally attract a mixed crowd. Even though the clientele is diverse, I’ve found these spaces to be much more welcoming and inclusive compared to many other predominantly gay male venues.
Heads up: in Delaware, bars typically stop serving alcohol at 1 a.m., but most will let you hang out for an extra hour to finish your drinks. Expect most places to close up by 2 a.m.
While Rehoboth Beach might be a bit off the beaten path from major airports, once you arrive, you’ll find it’s a breeze to get around on foot. So, after you make the journey, you can easily explore and enjoy everything this lively beach town has in store!
Gay Bars in Rehoboth Beach
Blue Moon | 35 Baltimore Avenue
Blue Moon and Aqua Grill are the ultimate hangouts in Rehoboth Beach, and they’ve earned their spot as local legends. Both places are cozy and welcoming, so you’ll have no trouble mingling with new friends wherever you go.
Let’s start with Blue Moon—this place is a double whammy of fabulousness. By day, it’s a chic and casual restaurant that’s a hit with food lovers thanks to its delicious menu and extensive wine list. Since opening in 1981, it’s become a beloved hotspot for the LGBTQ+ community. On weekends, it’s wise to snag a reservation to ensure you get a spot. After dinner, Blue Moon transforms into a vibrant gay bar, making it a perfect spot for a night of fun. Whether you’re there for a romantic dinner or a night out with pals, it’s the place to be. Plus, their schedule includes everything from bingo to drag shows, so there’s always something exciting happening!
They also have fabulous musical talent come through in the summer, if you’re lucky enough time it so you can see the fabulous lesbian singer Anne Steele.
Port 251 | 251 Rehoboth Avenue
Port 251, nestled at 251 Rehoboth Avenue, has quickly earned its place as a hotspot in Rehoboth Beach’s queer scene. This lively spot blends the vibrant spirit of “Where the Boys Are” with the chic charm of a Florence Aperitivo Bar, creating a perfect mix of casual and upscale.
With a cozy covered patio, Port 251 invites you to unwind and enjoy the relaxed atmosphere. The venue isn’t just about great food—though their menu is fantastic—it also doubles as a dynamic entertainment hub. Karaoke nights, fabulous drag shows, and live music throughout the week ensure that the fun never stops.
Whether you’re dropping by for a tasty meal or just to soak in the lively vibes, Port 251 has you covered. The atmosphere is all about being welcoming and easygoing, so come as you are, enjoy a drink, and let the good times roll!
Diego’s Bar and Nightclub | 37298 Rehoboth Avenue Extension
If you’re craving a lively beachside experience, Diego’s Bar and Nightclub is your go-to spot! With its sandy, tropical patio, you’ll feel like you’re sunbathing on the shore while sipping on your favorite drink. Inside, you’ll discover Rehoboth Beach’s largest dance floor, ready for you to bust some moves. The space is always buzzing with energy, thanks to regular DJ sets, karaoke nights, and a full bar to keep the party going.
Diego’s isn’t your typical beach bar—it’s a hotspot for unforgettable nights out. Swing by for “Yappy Hour” from 4 to 8 p.m. and enjoy great drink specials before hitting the dance floor. On Saturdays, don’t miss the epic shirtless dance parties starting at 9:30 p.m. If you’re feeling a bit rough the next day, their Sunday Funday Happy Hour is perfect for shaking off that hangover. Managed by the dynamic duo Darryl and Joe, Diego’s is a vibrant, must-visit spot for fun and festivity in Rehoboth Beach!
The Purple Parrot | 134 Rehoboth Avenue
The Purple Parrot, located at 134 Rehoboth Avenue, is a lively hotspot where the fun never stops. With its vibrant, Key West-inspired vibe, this popular LGBTQ+ bar offers daily drink specials and a fantastic biergarten. On weekends, join the crowd for karaoke nights and the occasional drag performance. The bar is renowned for its beachy atmosphere and delicious Sunday brunch, featuring $5 mimosas and Bloody Marys. Whether you’re in the mood for great food, exciting entertainment, or just people-watching, The Purple Parrot delivers it all with a spirited flair.
Other Options
Rigby’s Bar & Grill is a year-round favorite on the main drag, known for its tasty food and excellent beer in a welcoming beachside setting. For a unique twist, head over to Freddie’s Beach Bar, where you’ll find a playful, campy atmosphere adorned with pink flamingos and Barbie dolls, making it a straight-friendly spot with a gay-friendly vibe. Meanwhile, Aqua Grill is the ultimate see-and-be-seen destination after a day at the beach, featuring a spacious outdoor patio on the liveliest block in town, complete with hot shirtless bartenders and weekend DJs. Arrive early to snag a prime spot!
Not specifically a Rehoboth gay bar but a very welcoming space, Dogfish Head Brewing & Eats on 320 Rehoboth Avenue is a must-visit for craft beer enthusiasts. Known for its exceptional beers, especially hoppy IPAs, this place is a craft beer lover’s paradise. The laid-back taproom often features live music and serves up delicious pub fare, making it a great spot to enjoy top-notch brews and a lively atmosphere.
Gay Beaches in Rehoboth
Poodle Beach
Poodle Beach is the go-to spot for the LGBTQ+ crowd in Rehoboth Beach. Located just south of the boardwalk near Queen and Prospect Street, this vibrant stretch of sand is where the queer community gathers. While there are no signs marking it specifically, the lively and inclusive atmosphere makes it clear that Poodle Beach is the place to be. During the summer, you’ll find this area buzzing with beach volleyball games and plenty of people enjoying the sun. The beach is also dog-friendly, so feel free to bring along your furry friend. Expect it to be quite packed at the height of the season, but that’s all part of the fun
Lesbian Beach in Rehoboth Beach
North Shores Beach
North Shores Beach, while not officially labeled, is a well-known favorite among lesbians and queer women seeking a relaxed beach day. Located just north of Rehoboth Beach, this spot is a popular choice for a more laid-back experience. To find it, head up the coast past the boardwalk; if you hit Gordon’s Pond State Park, you’ve gone a bit too far.
North Shores offers a tranquil escape, about a mile north of the bustling boardwalk area. It’s a favored hangout for lesbians and queer women but also welcomes a mix of other visitors. Unlike the lively Poodle Beach, North Shores maintains a quieter and less crowded atmosphere.
For those driving in, be aware that Gordon’s Pond State Park charges a daily fee of $8 for out-of-state vehicles. When you arrive, park at the far end of the lot near the picnic pavilion. The beach entrance at this end features a “dividing jetty”—lesbians and queer women generally stick to the right while men hang left. The lesbian-friendly area is situated at the north end of the beach, accessible by staying left at the dunes.