This is me attempting to become a resort traveler—okay, maybe just learning to openly consider it as an option. As a traveler at heart, my vacations (when I’m not traveling for work) usually have me bolting around places like Vietnam, hopping buses, shuttles, and boats, trying to soak up as much as I possibly can. Admittedly, this style of travel leaves little room for relaxation and rejuvenation.
Life can be hectic for all of us for so many different reasons. This year, I am making a conscious effort to take better care of myself, and that includes allowing myself to rest, without guilt. Spending time on the beach at an LGBTQ+ friendly all-inclusive resort lets me lean into that rest in all the ways I need to.
Unfortunately, its still illegal to be gay in 64 countries, so for LGBTQ+ couples. To help you find the perfect stay for you and your partner, we’ve rounded up some of the best LGBTQ+ friendly all-inclusive resorts around the world. While Mexico and the Caribbean dominate this list, I’ve also included a handful of properties in unexpected locations to inspire your next getaway.
Top LGBTQ+ Friendly All-Inclusive Resorts
Casa Velas – Mexico
An adults-only boutique all-inclusive in Puerto Vallarta, Casa Velas offers an intimate, luxurious escape with lush gardens, a private beach club, and an onsite golf course. Known for its warm hospitality and inclusivity, this resort is perfect for LGBTQ+ travelers looking for a relaxing getaway with personalized service. Guests can enjoy private plunge pools in select suites, gourmet dining at Emiliano restaurant, and unlimited access to its sister property, Velas Vallarta, for additional beachfront amenities. Puerta Vallarta might be the unofficial gay capitol of Mexico and the hotel is located right in the mixed of things.
Divi Aruba All-Inclusive Resort – Aruba
This beachfront resort in Oranjestad, Aruba, is known for its stunning white sand beaches and welcoming atmosphere. With multiple restaurants, pools, and water activities, Divi Aruba provides a perfect blend of relaxation and adventure, making it a favorite among LGBTQ+ couples. Guests can enjoy unlimited dining at ten restaurants, complimentary water sports like snorkeling and windsurfing, and access to the nearby Alhambra Casino for a lively evening experience.
Hyatt Zilara Cancun – Mexico
The Hayatt Zilara Cancun is an adults-only, all-inclusive resort in Cancun that delivers high-end luxury with oceanfront suites, infinity pools, and top-tier dining experiences. When looking for an LGBT friendly resort finding one that is adults only is a good place to start. Hyatt properties are known for their LGBTQ+ inclusivity, and the Zilara is no exception, offering a safe and welcoming environment for all travelers. Guests can indulge in six gourmet restaurants, daily yoga and fitness classes, and beachfront cabanas with butler service for the ultimate relaxation.
Renaissance Wind Creek Resort – Aruba
Situated in the heart of Oranjestad, the Renaissance Wind Creek Aruba Resort offers a unique blend of luxury and adventure. This LGBTQ+-friendly resort is known for its private island, featuring pristine beaches and the famous Flamingo Beach, exclusively accessible to guests. The resort boasts multiple pools, a world-class casino, and an array of dining options, including L.G. Smith’s Steak & Chop House and the casual Papagayo Bar & Grill. Whether you’re indulging in spa treatments, shopping at the luxury mall, or enjoying water sports, this all-inclusive resort ensures a vibrant and welcoming escape in Aruba.
Sonesta Ocean Point Resort – St. Maarten
A luxurious adults-only resort, Sonesta Ocean Point provides breathtaking ocean views, a swim-out pool bar, and elegant suites. The resort embraces diversity and offers an upscale, stress-free getaway for LGBTQ+ travelers. Guests can unwind in three exclusive pools, savor Mediterranean-inspired cuisine at Azul Restaurant, and enjoy nightly live music at the resort’s open-air Sunset Lounge.
Secrets Huatulco – Mexico
Nestled along the secluded coast of Oaxaca, Secrets Huatulco is an adults-only, all-inclusive retreat offering pristine beaches and luxury accommodations. The resort has a reputation for welcoming LGBTQ+ guests and providing a romantic atmosphere perfect for honeymoons and anniversaries. Guests can experience gourmet dining at eight specialty restaurants, relax in the world-class Secrets Spa by Pevonia, and take part in included activities like kayaking and snorkeling.
Baoase Luxury Resort – Curaçao
A hidden gem in Curaçao, Baoase Luxury Resort is an exclusive, boutique-style all-inclusive offering private villas and unparalleled service. This property is ideal for LGBTQ+ travelers seeking privacy and indulgence in a tropical paradise. With private plunge pools, an intimate beachside restaurant serving Asian and French fusion cuisine, and personalized butler service, this resort sets the bar for luxury.
Barceló Aruba – Aruba
Located on Palm Beach, Barceló Aruba is an all-inclusive resort known for its lively atmosphere, beachfront access, and diverse dining options. Aruba’s LGBTQ+ friendly reputation makes this a fantastic choice for a sunny, all-inclusive escape. Guests can dine at seven international restaurants, enjoy live entertainment each night, and partake in complimentary activities like beach volleyball and paddleboarding.
Le Bora Bora by Pearl Resorts – French Polynesia
For those dreaming of an overwater bungalow experience, Le Bora Bora delivers unmatched luxury with breathtaking lagoon views. While not traditionally all-inclusive, this resort offers packages with meals, activities, and excursions included. Guests can enjoy romantic in-bungalow dining, unwind at the Tavai Spa, and explore the crystal-clear waters with complimentary paddleboards and kayaks.
InterContinental Bora Bora Resort and Thalasso Spa – French Polynesia
The iconic InterContinental Bora Bora resort offers an all-inclusive package that includes round-trip airfare from California, daily breakfast, and a variety of activities such as scuba diving, sunset cruises, and spa treatments. It’s an idyllic setting for a romantic LGBTQ+ getaway. The resort boasts the award-winning Deep Ocean Spa, fine dining at Le Corail restaurant, and exclusive overwater bungalows with glass-bottom floors.
