If your group chat is anything like mine, it absolutely exploded with heart emojis, voice memos, and unsolicited Bachelor hot takes when Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko announced their engagement. After six years together, the duopart pop royalty, part reality TV alum, and 100% queer power couple, finally made it official. And while the diamond is stunning and the vibes are immaculate, let’s be honest: the real main character here might be Majorca, Spain.
That’s right. Lesbian Jesus herself popped the question on the glittering cliffs of Majorca, a sun-soaked Balearic Island that should now officially be on every queer traveler’s bucket list.
Wait—Back Up. Who Are They?
In case you’ve been living under a non-queer rock: Hayley Kiyoko first stole our hearts with her synth-pop anthems, dreamy vocals, and lyrics that make us feel seen in ways Top 40 rarely does. She’s lovingly known as “Lesbian Jesus” by her fanbase, and for good reason her unapologetic queer visibility in music videos and on stage is nothing short of holy. She’s also the author of Girls Like Girls, a swoony YA novel based on her hit song of the same name. If you haven’t read it yet, consider this your nudge.
Becca Tilley came into the public eye during seasons 19 and 20 of The Bachelor, but her post-reality TV era is where she’s truly flourished. Since going public with their relationship in 2022 (after years of low-key romance), Becca has become a voice for queer folks navigating coming out later in life or in unconventional ways. Together, the two have been steadily rewriting what it looks like to be queer in the spotlight, sweet, silly, private when they need to be, and deeply devoted to each other.
The Proposal We Didn’t Know We Needed (but Definitely Did)
Hayley proposed on a rocky cliffside in Majorca, Spain, with the kind of turquoise water and golden-hour lighting that makes your heart ache in the best way. In the video they shared, we see Becca’s tearful “Yes,” a moment that feels at once intimate and cinematic. Cue the collective lesbian screaming.
They’ve both said Spain holds a special place in their hearts, and honestly, same. Majorca isn’t just a stunning backdrop for a proposal it’s a vibrant, queer-friendly destination that blends natural beauty with progressive energy and a side of Mediterranean bliss.
So… Should We All Be Booking Trips to Majorca?
Yes. Absolutely yes.
Majorca (or Mallorca, depending on your linguistic vibe) is a dream vacation for queer couples, solo travelers, and anyone craving a dose of sunshine and sapphic main-character energy. The island is known for its jaw-dropping cliffs, hidden coves, and water so blue it looks like someone upped the saturation in real life.
Beyond the aesthetics, Spain consistently ranks among the most LGBTQ-friendly countries in the world. Same-sex marriage has been legal since 2005, and queer visibility is widely celebrated in public life, media, and tourism. Majorca specifically has a thriving LGBTQ+ scene, especially in its capital, Palma. Think laid-back beach bars, inclusive nightlife, and boutique hotels that cater to a rainbow of guests.
If you’re after romance, picture this: sunset boat rides along the coastline, wine and olives on a private terrace overlooking the sea, and hiking trails that lead to secluded beaches perfect for a midday dip (clothing optional, if that’s your thing).
What Makes This Engagement Feel So Big
Queer proposals always hit differently, especially when they’re rooted in joy, softness, and autonomy. For a long time, public queer love stories were either hidden or tragic. But here we have two women—one who rose to fame in a space dominated by heteronormativity (The Bachelor), and one who has built her entire career on celebrating queer identity—claiming this moment loudly and lovingly.
And it didn’t happen on a red carpet or a tabloid cover. It happened on a cliff above the ocean, just the two of them, wrapped in the kind of queer joy that’s both revolutionary and quietly everyday. That balance? That’s what makes Becca and Hayley feel so relatable, even as they’re out here living literal romance-novel plotlines.
EveryQueer’s Take: Pop Culture Meets Passport Stamps
At EveryQueer, we love a pop culture moment—but even more, we love when that moment inspires travel. Hayley and Becca’s engagement is more than a viral video. It’s an invitation. An invitation to explore queer-friendly destinations that embrace who we are. An invitation to celebrate our love boldly. An invitation to dream about our own versions of cliffside proposals, spontaneous European getaways, and late-night kisses under Mediterranean stars.
So whether you’re planning your next vacation or daydreaming about your own proposal, take a cue from Becca and Hayley: Go somewhere that makes your heart beat faster. Say yes to joy. Say yes to adventure. And maybe—just maybe—say yes to forever.
Where to Stay in Majorca If You’re Feeling the Romance
Hotel Can Alomar (Palma): LGBTQ-friendly, sleek rooftop views, and walking distance to everything.
Finca Serena (Campos): Think rolling hills, olive groves, and a spa that smells like lavender and good decisions.
Nakar Hotel (Palma): Modern, chic, and steps from queer nightlife.
