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My Top 10 Hate Comments of 2016

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LGBT

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My Top 10 Hate Comments of 2016

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Meg Cale

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One of the consequences of being so open and public with my life is the amount of trolling and hate comments I get on the internet. It sucks, but it comes with the territory of what I do. I try to use filters on the social networks that allow it to block some of them. So ya know – I’m not getting 50 anti-queer slurs on my Instagram photos a day… but this year I also decided to track them on a spread sheet – lest my head get too big in all my new found blogging glory (jk – that’s def not a thing). I picked out some of my personal favorites for you to enjoy. 

 

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My theory is that it hurts me to see the comments on the backend but it hurts my community to view them on my page. I’ve been accused of censorship but to be very blunt. IDGAF. My little parking spots on the internet are not here for bigoted comments.

One of my favorite bloggers, Gloria Atanmo, releases her top hate comments of each year. I borrowed the idea (with permission) from her. So make sure you show her some love and check out her site. I particularly love her commentary on life as a black female digital nomad.

Okay back to the bigots.  comments – I mean comments.

I’ve been saving this list all year for this post. Because this is my job- and ya know – I gotta eat – so I can’t really talk shit respond to most of these commenters and still pay my bills, sponsors frown on that.

I’ve bottled all my sarcasm, sass and pettiness just for you. Cause I know you love some good internet drama.
Fair warning – there’s some strong language, threats of violence, lots of anti-LGBT rhetoric, and general asshatery below this image. Just throwing it out there.

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Here’s a pretty image of a pride flag – use it as your escape while you still can….

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In response to 16 Blogs to Make You a Better Person

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Take this off my feed it a disgrace and nasty. I’ve been nice about this being on my feed and now it’s time to offend everyone. fag is nasty and people who support them GBLT are just as bad. You all think I’m crazy Ik you do but Idgafc😊 I wanna offend every single one of you cause this fag crap offend me. I don’t want anything to do with this I don’t want anything to do with the heshe’s the queers or any of you just stop putting this on my fead this crap should be against the law like if your gay keep it to your self. Now please do not ever show this on my feed again or things will get bad”

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THIS IS IN YOUR FEED BECAUSE YOU FOLLOWED ME. 

::DEEP BREATH::
Get an editor – That is all.

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In response to WE ELOPED: YUP, LINDSAY AND I GOT MARRIED IN ECUADOR!

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“in what alternate universe did The Lord God Almighty ever say that it is acceptable for people of the same gender to become one in marriage? Or even in relationships? My parents raised me the right way. Anything I do I’m life is either right or wrong. And homosexuality is completley wrong. And don’t label me a homophobe. That would mean that I fear them. I don’t. i believe that what they stand for is wrong.”

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Eat a dick, sir. Oh & I’m not labeling you a homophobe – just an uneducated asshat. THANKS FOR COMMENTING – DON’T FORGET TO SUBSCRIBE.

Cordially yours,
Meg

 

 

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Here’s a photo of me being unbothered.

 

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In a Facebook DM from a random tour operator I’ve never met.

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“Why you don’t like men sexually?”

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I’m allergic to nuts.

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In response to The Good, The Bad, & the Ugly of Freelancing

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“You sound like a whiny cunt. Your traveling around the globe for free i bet you’re sucking cock to pay for it and saying you “freelance” is code for whoring yourself. Fuck ur complaining. your’re american twat would be sucking my cock for free in my country.”  

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Do you kiss your momma with that mouth? For the record, I love my job about 70% of the time. Yes, I get to travel the world and no I’m not a sex worker. But more power to those who use sex work as a means to accomplishing their goals.
You may have noticed that I’m a feminist – which means I believe that women have the right to make their own choices about their bodies. Slut shaming me – or anyone else – doesn’t mean anything in the grand scheme of life. We’d still be traveling the world, own our own businesses and not giving a fuck what anonymous trolls on the internet have to say about it. Also; go fuck yourself.

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In response to just about everything I’ve ever posted on Reddit.

 

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“Gay” dyke” “gaaayyyyy” “fag” “queer”

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That last one’s my favorite.

I’m bored with these comments. I deleted 1,233 one word slurs across all of my social channels this year. That’s gotta be a record right? I like to fantasize about what I’d do with all that time I’ve spent deleting comments. I figure it probably takes me about 3 seconds to spot the comment and another 2 seconds to press the delete button. That means I spent 102 minutes (roughly – listen I’m not a mathematician – I get paid to sass people on the internet). If I could get that 102 minutes of my year back, what could I do? Hmmm get a mani/pedi? Read my copy of the feminist manifesto? Take a nap? Ohhh the options.

 

 

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In response to a Facebook Post about the Pulse Nightclub shootings.

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“Orlando shooter for president” and “Faggots got what was coming to them” annnnddddd “Faggots can suck the end of my AK” and “You’re the reason Pulse was shot up”

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These all came from the same user- I don’t even need to respond to this one because I took some screenshots and sent them to his commanding officer. Yup – he was in the Army and stupid enough to post this bullshit on the internet.

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Here’s are some pretty image of some calming things…  use them and visualize a world where trolls don’t leave anonymous hate comments online or actually believe that mass homicide is a reasonable action.

 

 

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In response to me liking her photos on Instagram.

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There are no friendships in the Lesbian Games – only prey. 

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In response to 40 Safety Tips for LGBT Travelers

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“Fucking hell! I am sick and tired of these psycho-fags rubbing their sexuality in everyone’s faces. Homosexuality is not a crime in the West, leave the rest of us alone and get on with your day instead of wasting it by telling us why you’re “oppressed” while you don’t even live in Africa or the Middle East where you’d be dead right now.”

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“Not a crime” is a pretty low bar for standards of human rights. Also; read a book you uneducated fuck.

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In response to a wedding photo on Instagram

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“Y u dykes?”

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Hmmmm…. Give me a minute – let me see if I can come up with a straight answer.

Get it? HA

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In response to numerous posts

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“Go Kill Yourself” “Die” “Drink Bleach” “KYS” “JUST DRINK BLEACH” “CLOROX”

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Okay – I’m going to get serious here for a minute.

As much as I want to tell these kids to go fuck themselves when they leave these comments, I usually take the time to send them a DM and tell them about a good friend of mine who really did kill himself in 2006. I also leave them the numbers for some suicide hotlines and remind them that the words they say online really do have an impact for some people.
They usually either respond with more hate or don’t respond at all. Which is why I have a block button.

In the first three months of 2016, I received 73 comments telling me to kill myself. I stopped counting these comments after March. It was too dark for me to deal with. If you’re thinking about suicide consider reaching out to The Trevor Project at 1-866-488-7386. You can call, text or IM on their website.

 

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Here’s a photo of me eating Linds’ ice cream to break the mood.

 

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99% of these comments I disregard, delete, and go about my day. No sweat off my back. I’ve even posted some of the funnier ones on Facebook this past year.

They say that you should only take comments worth a grain of salt. I’d be lying if I said they didn’t at times impact me, because they do. Everyone has things that hit home for them. Recently I was accused of using my blog to get “validation from strangers.” Which is kind of hilarious to me because I probably get twice as many hate comments as I do positive comments. I had to take almost a full week away from the Internet after the Pulse Shooting because I just couldn’t handle it. I had nightmares and got physically ill that week. I try my best to shield the community from the ignorance but it doesn’t always work out that way. Everyone has their limits.

The homophobes, wild #TRUMP2016 people, and overtly sexual messages have actually helped me open my perspective to the world. They definitely keep me humble, lest I ever let my meager internet following go to my head. But they also force me to remember how much work we still have to do in this world. The battle for LGBT equality didn’t end with marriage in the US.
I create my content for our community. Hopefully, queer folks can find a nugget of information or entertainment with what I’m doing. If not, that’s cool too. I do this because I love it. Sure – it pays my bills, and I’m not naive enough to believe that my travel blog is curing cancer or anything, but if I help one person stay safe while traveling I’ll have met my goal.

Thank you to all of you who took the time to like my posts and send me love on the internet. Your beauty really helps me balance the hate. I appreciate your more than I can ever articulate in this post, you’re a ray of light in my life. <3

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17 Comments

  • Reply Gloria Atanmo at 7:09 am

    “Give me a minute – let me see if I can come up with a straight answer.”
    ZING!!!!! Meg, you’re golden. Love this article, but obviously hate the comments and content it took to make it. Amazing how much hate is out there behind anonymous hug-deprived nobodies. I know these don’t get TOO hard to you, but wish I could hug you right now. XOXO

    • Reply Meg Cale at 10:50 pm

      Thanks for letting me borrow your genius Gloria. I really appreciate it. I know what a pain in the ass it is when folks rip off your content or ideas.

  • Reply Laura MG at 2:05 pm

    My *absolute* favourite is your forwarding the homophobe’s comments to his CO. Amazing! It’s so sad that people have these opinions let alone feel the need to comment but you handled it with class. Here’s to a world where this post wouldn’t be necessary but in the meantime we’ll done you.

    Laura
    http://Www.lipstickatweekends.com

    Xx

    • Reply Meg Cale at 10:49 pm

      That guy REALLY pissed me off. It was a bad week and I had zero chill lol.

  • Reply Amanda Williams at 12:30 am

    Oh wow I cannot believe this. I am so sorry you have to put up with this kind of thing but well done you for answering back so awesomely! More hope less hate people please.

    • Reply Meg Cale at 10:48 pm

      For awhile, early on in my career I used to try to formulate teachable moments for these commenters but now I’ve gotten pretty great at identifying the ones who will actually use the information and those who are tone deaf to reason. It’s actually a very fine tuned skill lol

  • Reply Megan Indoe at 12:58 am

    I love Gloria! I was so bothered by all the hate comments she received this year and wondered how many other people must be experiencing the same shit. I really think it’s great that you shared this, it needs to be out there. There are some people who are just full of hate and ignorance. Thankyou for putting this out there, hopefully others will see this and try to make a change. Keep up the awesome attitude and never let these self loathing fools ever get you down!

    • Reply Meg Cale at 10:47 pm

      Gloria is the best. I love her writing. I even read her book. I’ll have to share a link to it in a future post. I’m so grateful that she allowed me to borrow her style for this post. As far as the haters go – I think their comments are much more of a reflection on them than on me tbh. I appreciate the comment and all your support Megan.

  • Reply Danni Lawson at 1:34 am

    Very powerful responses to some incredibly vague and hate-filled slurs- why are trolls never creative in their attempts? On the plus side, at least they’re learning to use ‘queer’ and haven’t worked out its positive connotations yet! You’re right, the block button is a friend in these situations.

    • Reply Meg Cale at 10:37 pm

      Most of the time I just laugh at the stupidity. I’ve worked in the LGBT world a very long time which I guess kinda desensitizes me to some of these comments. Probably not the greatest thing, but it’s what keeps me sane.

  • Reply MidnightBlueElephant at 11:24 am

    This pisses me off so much. I usually enjoy reading these hater comment round-ups, hoping one day I will get enough myself to do one of these. But yours…what the fuck is wrong with the world and with people? I am really sorry that you had to read this. It makes me ashamed of humanity.
    Well done for standing up for yourself and against the hate, because the unfortunate truth is that it seems to many of these are not only dumb and uneducated (not that this is a great explanation for comments like these ever). And this Army dude – ha! That actually made me laugh – what a tool!
    And yes, I completely agree with your ‘censorship’ in your situation. It is your blog and you can cry/block if you want to!

    • Reply Meg Cale at 10:36 pm

      Lol I wouldn’t wish the blog haters on anyone. I have some LGBT clients that I do freelance work for and they get the same level of hate (sometimes worse) than I do. Unfortunately, just the existence of my community is deemed a controversial issue. We’re moving in the right direction (mostly) so hopefully these issues will lessen with time, community education, and social reform. Thanks for commenting. The love is appreciated.

  • Reply Carol Perehudoff at 4:16 am

    OMG, these comments make ME want to drink bleach.

    • Reply Meg Cale at 10:33 pm

      ugh please don’t say that. I hope you’re okay 🙁

  • Reply Follow My Gut at 12:32 am

    OMG I don’t know how you do it. I mean, I know you have to get through it and it’s possible to get over such horrible comments, but man these are some pretty mean comments. I commend you for being able to get past them and be unbothered. Fuck them, they’re useless anyway. BTW you look so gorgeous in your unbothered shot!

  • Reply Stevie Biffen at 1:30 pm

    Freaking love this! Comments can really hit home sometimes, so here’s to validation from positive feedback ;P I agree with Laura MG, the reporting of the disgusting excuse of a human to his CO was majestic af. Thanks for making my day!

  • Reply Lena at 8:45 pm

    “I’m allergic to nuts” LOL
    Show them, girl!

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