This past weekend I attended my 6th Dinah Shore weekend with Bumble. I love queer events because I feel like it’s the one time when I get to be surrounded by my people and completely immerse myself in our culture.
After mentioning several of my favorite events around the world I realized that so many of the people I was chatting up had no idea how many queer women’s events there actually are – spoiler, it’s more than this list of 20. But I narrowed it down to the biggest and best. Whether you’re looking for love for a lifetime or just one night or you want to build community and friendships these events are for you. Can’t make it to any of the events in person? Check out Bumble or BumbleBFF to get started from home.
Dinah Shore
Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend, popularly known as “The Dinah” is the most famous and largest lesbian party in the world. It’s kind of like a lesbian festival mixed with a lesbian pool party mixed with a bunch of lesbian club nights oh and throw in a concert over the course of five days. Every year they have A-list celebrities attending and performing. Last year Lady Gaga was seen in the crowd along with dozens of celesbian YouTubers. It’s incredible – I’ve been a bunch of times and I’d highly recommend it to anyone searching for community or a date – or both.


Photo Credit: Molly Adams
When is it? End of March through early April
Where is it? Palm Springs, California in the United States
How much does it cost? A regular weekend pass is $259 USD
Girls in Wonderland
Girls in Wonderland is an Orlando based lesbian circuit party for queer women of all stripes. It’s a first-class women’s event with over a decade of amazing parties, special performances, celebrity appearances and thousands of attendees. It’s basically Disney for lesbians – ‘cause it’s in Orlando – get it? By now y’all should know I’m never going to give up the opportunity for a dumb joke.


Photo Credit: Christin Lewin
When is it? June
Where is it? Orlando Florida in the United States
How much does it cost? Weekend passes start at $80 USD
Ella Festival
Every year Ella Festival gets bigger and better. They’re now offering two festivals, one in the winter in Switzerland and another in the summer on the island of Majorca in Spain. Ella is a little more on the grown and sexy side of lesbian events because they attract a more polished crowd. While there is definitely still a nightlife and party element to Ella, they also have a little something else going on with speakers and panels about important issues in our community.
When is it? January & August
Where is it? Davos, Switzerland & Majorca, Spain
How much does it cost? Majorca starts at 334 Euros for a weekend pass. Davos starts at 884 Euros per person but please note Ella Festival comes with your hotel stay, week-long party passes, lift tickets, alcohol and some meals whereas the other festivals are for just a weekend pass.
Fiesta Rose Girls
Fiesta Rose Girls is one of the largest lesbian parties in the world. With over 1500 queer women, DJs, dancers, this high production valued event is definitely one to put on your bucket list! Check out this article to read more about it.


When is it? November
Where is it? Buenos Aires, Argentina
Women’s White Party
The Women’s White Party is four days of parties, shopping, dining and sunning, culminating in a blow-out party with top entertainment. The White Party is a charity party to benefit CareResource.
When is it? November
Where is it? Miami, Florida, USA – South Beach
Velvet Ibiza
Velvet IBIZA welcomes queer women from all over the world to celebrate life and love in Europe’s hottest party city. Velvet Ibiza is a four-day all-inclusive weekend featuring the hottest DJs from Europe and the US, including DJ Whitney Day.


When is it? April
Where is it? Ibiza, Spain
How much does it cost? 526 Euros for the weekend which comes with a hotel room, food and drinks until 24:00, all entrance fees, transportation to the airport and to the clubs.
P-Town Single Women’s Weekend
Single women’s weekend in P-Town is a rite of passage. It’s a bit different than some of the other parties on this list because it’s not centrally located at one hotel. Lesbians from all over folk to Provincetown, one of the US’s historically gay towns, to hang out at queer women’s events, parties, and of course meet single lesbians.
When is it? Memorial Day Weekend
Where is it? Provincetown, MA
How much does it cost? $25 for party entrance
Backlot Bash
Back Lot Bash is the Midwest’s largest LGBT women’s festival. It always takes place during Pride week in Chicago and is known for drawing huge crowds to the Andersonville neighborhood of ChiTown.


Photos Courtesy of Backlot Bash
When is it? June
Where is it? Chicago, IL, USA
How much does it cost? Varies
Girl Splash
Each year Girl Splash offers a full line-up of parties, performers, and lots of activities for women who love women. Provincetown is my favorite city on this list. It’s just got this adorable charm that you have to experience for yourself. Head to P-Town for the beach hangouts, lobster rolls, lattes at Wired Puppy, and the best nightlife.


Photos Courtesy of Girl Splash
When is it? July
Where is it? Provincetown MA, USA
How much does it cost? $10
SheFest
SheFest is San Diego Pride’s event for the women of the LGBT community. It consists of workshops, live performances, lawn games, and park vendors. It’s basically a women-centric pride within the larger pride festivities.
When is it? July
Where is it? North Park Community Park San Diego, CA, USA
How much does it cost? Free
Chunky Dunk
Chunk Dunk is a body-positive pool party each summer celebrating bodies of all shapes and sizes. They’re not going to let anything stop us, or you, from enjoying a refreshing summer cool-down! Chunky Dunks are a safer, fun environment to test the waters of your own empowerment and swim, lounge, splash!

When is it? July & August in Portland or February in Melbourne
Where is it? Many locations Internationally
How much does it cost? $5 cash donation
Folsom Street Festival
Folsom Street Fair is an annual BDSM and leather subculture street fair held in September, that caps San Francisco’s “Leather Pride Week” similar events are also held in New York City. While this is not a strict women-centric event, it is a woman, trans, and genderqueer-inclusive space with many events and offshoots catering to our communities.

When is it? September
Where is it? San Francisco and New York
How much does it cost? Most events are free or a small donation
Sum of Us Festival
For those seeking a retreat that combines wellness, community, and nature, Sum of Us Festival is a perfect choice. Held annually in Cobb, California, this four-day gathering offers LGBTQ+ women, trans, and non-binary individuals a chance to reconnect with themselves and others. With a focus on wellness workshops, live performances, and outdoor activities, Sum of Us provides a transformative experience.

When is it? September
Where is it? Cobb California
How much does it cost? Weekend passes start at $379
Stargaze Festival
If you’re looking for a blend of music, art, and camping, Stargaze Festival is a dream come true. Nestled in the woods of Tolland, Massachusetts, this annual event invites women, non-binary, and trans individuals to immerse themselves in a magical world of creativity and connection. With live music, dance parties, and workshops, Stargaze offers an unforgettable summer camp experience with a queer twist.

When is it? August
Where is it? Tolland, MA
How much does it cost? Weekend passes start at $257
Out & Wild Festival
For those seeking adventure and community, the Out & Wild Festival in Lawrenny, Wales is a must-visit. This annual spring event brings together lesbian, bi, trans, and queer women for a weekend of wellness, outdoor activities, and live entertainment. With a focus on inclusivity and connection, Out & Wild offers a vibrant and inspiring atmosphere.

When is it? May/June
Where is it? Lawrenny, Wales, UK
How much does it cost? Weekend passes start at $150
International Eressos Women’s Festival
For a truly international experience, The International Eressos Women’s Festival on the Greek island of Lesbos is a unique opportunity to connect with women from around the world. This ten-day event offers a diverse program of workshops, talks, and cultural activities, creating a supportive and inspiring atmosphere.

When is it? September
Where is it? Skala Eressos, Lesbos, Greece
How much does it cost? Week wristbands start at 100 Euros
Lavender Wild
Toronto’s Lavender Wild is a must-attend for music lovers and queer women alike. This annual August event transforms the city into a pulsating hub of music, art, and community. With a diverse lineup featuring both international and local talent, from DJs to drag performers, Lavender Wild caters to a wide range of musical tastes. Beyond the music, the festival offers a variety of engaging activities, creating a vibrant and inclusive atmosphere.

When is it? August
Where is it? Toronto Canada
How much does it cost? Tickets start at $45 Canadian